So, if you are one of those people who did make new year’s resolutions, now what? As a school counselor, I teach my students that a goal without a plan is just a dream. It’s one thing to say you will do something and another to follow through and actually do it. It’s important to set realistic goals that you can actually accomplish. One way to do this is to set goals that are SMART–Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Timely. To say you want to lose fifty pounds in the next 30 days may be specific and measurable, but for most people…not achievable, realistic or timely. But to lose five pounds in the next 30 days could be considered a SMART goal for many.
After setting your goals, you need to have a plan that will work for you. You don’t have to overhaul your whole life….but you will need to make some changes to see results. For example, one of my resolutions for the new year is to finish reading the bible. I actually started reading it last year. In order for me to finish it and accomplish my goal, I will need to read a little each day…following the reading plan I have chosen to use. This goal is a SMART goal because it is specific: I will finish reading the bible. It is measurable: I can track where I am using a bible app and I will know when I have finished it. It is achievable: It can be done easily if I read 15-30 minutes per day following the reading plan on the app that I am using. It is realistic: I have time to read a little each day and if I miss a day I can read extra the next day to catch up. Finally, it is timely because I have given myself a year to do it.
If you don’t know how to make a plan for accomplishing your goals, here are some basic steps you can use to get started:
1. Decide on a goal you want to work on. Make sure it is a SMART goal- Your goal should be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic and timely.
2. Decide on specific things you will do to help you reach your goal. What changes are you going to make in your daily routine to help you reach your goal? What resources do you need?
3. Imagine yourself successful. Visualize yourself successfully reaching your goal.
4. Expect no less than the best for yourself. Don’t let failure be an option.
5. Ask for help and advice. Find a friend or expert who you trust to guide you. Or join a support group of people working towards the same goal.
6. Remember a mistake only as a guide to doing better next time. Don’t give up if you have a bad day. Get back on plan as soon as possible.
7. Think positive! Reassure yourself that you can and will achieve your goal.
8. Enjoy your accomplishments. Celebrate by doing something special for yourself.